Are they scared of a committment or do they just don't want to hurt your feelings?

yeah girl! thatz a question i ponder about also. i think most of the time, its bcoz they are afraid of commitment. there may be other reasons i have no idea about. pls hit me back if u get some convincing replies, aight!

I think they are just little punks who do not wanna grow up and take responsibility for any thing.

Do u mean to say u dont know what guys are?they are just like pop corn which gives satisfaction just for a while.Almost all of them are thieves so u dont expect them to show up. right?

Yes Petra thats my question too. Think most of them are irresponsible. Sad and true!!!

I think if a guy is scared of commitmment is just that he is not ready to be commited to the particular person, it has nothing to do with you its just that he thinks he hasn't found that special someone. When he thinks u r the one he wants to be committed. True love flows u don't force him into anything he just declares himself sooner than u expect. So if he doesn't wanna commit move on u'll find the one!

i agree with lydia. guys get scared to commit themselves just with the ladies they don't love. i tell u if a guy truly loves you, he'll be ready long before you even know or think of it.